Rooming in
Keeping your baby in the room with you will help you learn their cues and respond to their needs. This is the first time your baby will be outside of your womb, and they will be just learning how to communicate. By rooming in, you will have more time for skin-to-skin and feeding practices. You may be thinking that you won't get as much rest with them in the room with you. But, don't worry. Research shows parents get just as much or more rest when they room in with their babies.
Watching for Hunger Cues
Whenever your baby gets hungry, you will be there! They will have a tiny stomach and will need to eat often (10 or more times each day). With each feeding, their stomach will grow, and they will be able to eat more. Your baby will give you cues to tell you when they are hungry. To learn more about hunger cues take the lesson, Understanding Your Newborn: Sleep, Crying, and Cues in this series.
Visitors
While in the hospital, caring for your baby and yourself will be your top priority. With that in mind, you can accept (or turn away) as many visitors as you decide is right. Ask the hospital staff for uninterrupted time from visitors and staff when you need to get some rest. Communicate what you want with your birthing partner. This way they can share the information with staff when you are too tired to do so.
If you do decide to accept visitors, it will be your decision how much you allow others to hold your baby. Your loved ones will be excited to see and hold them. That does not mean they get to hold them for hours on end. It will be most important for your baby to get as much bonding and skin-to-skin time with you as possible. It will also be important that you get enough alone time to start learning your baby’s cues and how to feed them. If you decide to let visitors hold your baby, make sure they wash their hands with soap and water before they hold them.
Safe handling of bottles and formula
All bottles and nipples will need to be sterilized before they are used for the first time. Bottles will collect bacteria if they are not cleaned well. Learn more about how to safely handle bottles and formula.